Genesis 1:26-27 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So, God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
After God created all that there is, He created persons with unique variations that will merge their individual uniqueness to sustain creation. Without each other coming together, creation would die. Whilst woman was created by God to help the man, the man was created to be a source of living, a sustainer of life, a provider, protector, a guide, a teacher and an inspiration. The word “man” in the Hebrew which is PATAR translated as FATHER or PAPA means “that which life flows”
Reproduction and multiplication mandate of man is largely dependent on the act of sex.
To a man, sex is not a want but a need. Men need sex to fulfill the reproduction mandate. In the light of sex, men have been wired with a sense of sexual urge which makes it possible for them to at almost any time, be ready for sex. Its possible that a woman can stay for 6 months or more without sexual thoughts but that’s impossible with men. Having a sexual thought is not sin but dwelling on sexual thought can lead to sin however. While men have sex for fun, women have sex for intimacy. The opposite is true for harlots. Men need sex whilst women need care and attention. Until we draw the line of control and discipline, we’re in for some real trouble.
If an unmarried man ever feels like having sex, relax, you have not sinned. That’s feeling actually means you’re aligned to the reproduction mandate. The feeling of not wanting sex is rather a problem that needs to be addressed. If you ever wake from sleep to realize you have soiled the bed with semen, don’t go for deliverance yet, you’re not possessed, you are a real man. Having sex in a dream does not immediately men you have a spirit spouse, interpretations are very important to dreams and visions but let’s leave that for today, someday we shall look at it.
THE EYES OF MEN
Job 31:1 I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?
Whilst women want to hear, men want to see. Job was just like any other man in his days. In his days, he was a married man with children and abundant wealth but neither of those was enough to hold him back from sexual misconduct. A covenant with his eyes was the best of remedy he employed. Men play around what they see. Every man is a visual student who never graduates. Even though this is a powerful gift, it can be misused and lead one into trouble and sin. A covenant with the eye is a call to discipline from what one should entertain in setting his eyes upon. To look at a woman is natural but to gaze at a woman can be sexual. Even though your first instance of looking at a woman may be reflex, the second is deliberate and should be controlled. If you cannot control your eye, you cannot control your life as a man because your eyes set the direction at which your life should follow. This is true because men only pursue what they see. There are certain areas that when you go, you get exposed to images that sexually entice you, such places should be avoided because as long as you keep watching, your mind keeps recording and your flesh will start doing.
It’s sad that the society has gradually turned many of our women into walking naked. I personally don’t believe in being half naked you’re either covered or naked. Our women should be responsible enough to cover themselves at all times in public places so as not to lure wild men into sexual sin.
Ghanaian ladies are beautiful and naturally endowed and it’s worth rewarding but they’ll do more good than harm if what’s meant for the bedroom is kept under cover so men wouldn’t go gaga. Every lady must understand that when you sell yourself cheap you’ll be bought cheaply but I believe ladies on this page will make the right decision after tonight. You’re loved of God.
WOMEN ARE LITTLE ANGELS
I Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Women are a weaker vessel and deserve honour. Women should not be reduced to sex objects but must be treated with respect and care. The prayers of a husband can be hindered when he mistreats his wife and that’s some serious thing. Every husband must make sure that before he enters the prayer closet, his wife is happy in his capacity. It is a waste of time to go into prayers immediately after hurting your wife. If women are a weaker vessel then they need to be protected by men and not leave them to the detects of this sick world. Husbands must protect their wives from abusive bosses, fathers must protect their daughters from cruel friends. Women are little angels that can give acceleration to your prayers and when you fail to treat them well, you have yourself to blame.
I treat my wife extremely well and that has contributed to the many blessings the Lord has bestowed upon our home. I don’t spend so much time in prayer and fasting but I do the right things and the blessings flow. Some married men have lots of unanswered prayers not because the devil is powerful but because they treat their wives with little or no care.
Anytime you have a serious prayer point to make, spoil your wife with a gift and then get into prayer. Wait and see the results.
MEN AND FORNICATION
I Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
The act of fornication is more mental than physical but the consequences are more physical than mental.
Generally, women do not fantasize having sex with men but the opposite is true of men. When a man is free from fornication, it is either he did not get the chance to fornicate or the chance came but he disciplined himself. When a man succeeds at luring a lady to bed with money, it means that cash is the greatest strength of that man and when he becomes broke, he becomes the weakest man. People say women love money but that is not truth in its entirety. The truth is that, women love comfort and it seem in this present age, the greatest element that can birth comfort is cash. So, it is not the money they love but comfort so succeeding at luring a lady to bed with money does not in any way make you a hero. Real men do not entice women with money but rather, lead them to purpose and self-actualization. There are some women who are also never satisfied with whatever they have but desire to keep acquiring material substances and that has led them into the act of fornication. The consequence of fornication is great that you do not want to play around. Just imagine being sick, broke, demonically oppressed, poor, ridiculed etc. because of fornication.
Every man must understand that no matter how intense his sexual desires have emerged; women are not sex objects and must be treated with love and respect.
MEN PROTECT WITH PANTIES UP
I Timothy 5:1-3 Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity. Honour widows that are widows indeed.
The value of a true man is not in how many panties he has succeeded in pulling down but is in how many women he has added value to. Every man must position himself to be a blessing in the life of women around him and not become an instrument of pain, regret and hurt.
Every woman around you is your responsibility as a man. You’re responsible for making sure every woman around you is safe. Don’t worry about pulling down panties when you marry you’ll pull down until you’re tired. You can ask my wife.
As a man, you don’t have to pull down a pant to offer a job. Treat every woman as a sister or mother. Whenever you want to abuse a woman ask yourself what would Jesus do?
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